Life Lessons

It seems that every past experience comes together to build upon the present moment, ultimately creating the future. This notion sometimes feels overwhelming, as it seems like our future is totally out of our hands. I would disagree with that pessimistic view of the world, though. If there is one important lesson I learned from my time working with Dr. Conover, it is that our future is completely under our control. Coming back to the office after a three-month hiatus in the form of my semester at school, this lesson is more apparent than ever. Dr. Conover has completely revamped her business, and with the help of Jezabel Flores, is coming up with even more new and innovating ideas that I thought possible. She is a role model; her success is something to which I aspire. Her modest attitude is something worth spreading-that anyone can achieve this type of success. The most important lesson I've learned from this whole experience is go after exactly what you want, seizing every opportunity along the way.

In my own personal life, this has translated into pursuing a job opportunity that I may not have otherwise attempted. Dr. Conover encouraged me to apply for a research job in a lab upon my return to school, but I wasn't sure I'd find a job or even get hired at all. Then it happened that there was an announcement made in my Psychology of Happiness class-research assistants wanted. It just felt like that opportunity was meant for me, and with Dr. Conover's support I applied and was chosen for the position. It turned out extremely well for me, I worked at the lab this past semester and intend on returning when spring semester begins next week. I am honestly not sure if I would have even applied had I not had her in my corner, rooting me on. Even if you are not as lucky as I am, and do not have someone like Dr. Conover constantly cheering you on, then I also think it is important to learn to self-motivate. Be your own biggest fan!

The specific training and information I have learned in my collective four months in Dr. Conover's office will be invaluable for my future in Psychology. However, the life lessons I am also garnering can be applied both to and outside of my pursuit of Psychology as a profession. It sounds cheesy, but I learned to believe in myself, which led me to pursue opportunities I may have initially passed up. I really hope everyone can learn this lesson in their lives, I think it will make us all infinitely happier!

--Jillian Tessier